9 Different Types of Sex Dreams You May Have / Sexyweek If you are dreaming about sex, it could mean that you are looking for some external desires or answers to a current or potential relationship.
Chief Editor has compiled 9 different types of sex dreams that you might experience (because they're actually quite common). Instead of brushing them off, take the time to evaluate them and figure out what to do next.
Sex with a celebrity
“Of course, you are clearly attracted to this person, and you may have even used his image as a fantasy during a sexual experience. However, when he appears in your dream as your sexual partner, it's not just another layer of falling in love with him, says Milrad. Unfortunately, “more often than not, dreams about sex with someone famous reflect your desire to feel special, important in this world, and to make people pay attention to you. This may come from feeling the opposite in your daily life,” Milrad explains.
Interpretation according to different dream books
Several famous dream interpreters give different meanings, but they all have a common basis. A mature person does not dream of an intimate act exactly as it happens in reality, because the sleeper has the opportunity to feel the whole range of emotions in reality. But if intercourse regularly occurs in night dreams, this indicates unsatisfied desires, repressed into the unconscious zone.
Meaning according to Freud and Miller
The psychoanalyst finds sexual connotations in every dream, and visions of intimacy are no exception. According to his dream book, sexual intercourse observed in a pornographic film indicates the dreamer’s desire to diversify everyday intimacy by introducing elements of play into it. It is unknown how your partner will react to this, so it is better to first carefully find out whether he will be against it.
Dreams about group sex indicate a possible mental disorder, especially if both men and women participated in intercourse. There is a risk of developing schizophrenia. Various sexual perversions and experiments, if you dream of them regularly, indicate an unhealthy situation in the family. At the same time, the vision may portend a new interesting acquaintance.
Sigmund Freud identifies dreams about sexual intercourse with famous people as a separate group. In his opinion, they are characteristic of people who have empty dreams. In dreams, this feature manifests itself in the form of intimacy with actors, musicians, and singers. The most common meaning of such a dream is a desire for intimacy in reality for the reason that the person has abstained from sex for a long time.
Miller believes that night dreams need to be interpreted taking into account the emotions experienced by the sleeper. If a girl is raped in a dream, in reality she will have to endure pressure, and not necessarily from her husband or lover. If intimacy occurred by mutual consent, there will be a short-term separation from your loved one. This dream may mean that searching for information about your ex-boyfriend will not lead to success.
A married lady who has seen a plot involving copulation should take special care to protect her reputation. There is a category of people who are haunted by other people’s happiness, and you should not once again give them a reason for gossip. The marriage may be in jeopardy in the near future, and you need to pull yourself together to keep your cool. Some may try to convince a woman that her husband is unfaithful to her. Don't take these words to heart.
Predictions of Vanga and Loff
David Loff is not only a dream interpreter, but also a psychologist. He argues that dreams of sexual intercourse show emotions and desires that have been repressed into the unconscious. The degree of pleasure received in night dreams is directly proportional to dissatisfaction in reality.
According to Loff's dream book, interrupted contact indicates an internal protest of the sleeper. A person feels under the yoke of obligations, and he wants to free himself from them. Interruption of physical intimacy at the most crucial moment may also indicate a feeling of personal inferiority. Often such an attitude towards oneself is provoked by the opinions of others. If a man saw such a dream, he should not rush into marriage.
According to Vanga, a dream about intercourse is a harbinger of a breakup or a quarrel. If intimacy was accompanied by passionate kisses, in reality one of the partners does not trust the other. For a girl, the vision foreshadows regret about a frivolous act. Interpretation options that take into account the partner’s personality:
- father - successful marriage, family happiness;
- nephew or brother - receiving financial assistance or good news from relatives;
- rapist - achieving goals;
- someone else's wife - the risk of suffering due to frivolity;
- a familiar person - the success of the business started;
- stranger - respect from others, recognition;
- lady of easy virtue - short illness;
- sister - hard work;
- daughter - her magnificent wedding or divorce, depending on whether she is now married or not;
- mother - painful thoughts, internal disharmony with apparent well-being;
- stranger woman - safe return from a dangerous trip;
- animal - the desire to develop in oneself the qualities inherent in this beast;
- dead man is a good purchase;
- son - care from older family members;
- a person of the same sex is a loss.
Vanga predicts trouble for the dreamer who watched others indulge in pleasures. If the partners were happy, in reality a conspiracy is being prepared against the person: ill-wishers spread defamatory information about him. Copulation with a bird of prey foreshadows a lawsuit in which the sleeper may lose.
To see another person having intercourse with the dreamer’s wife in bright light means to be tormented by remorse for committed unseemly acts. A person fears that he will be punished.
Abusive or violent sex
"If you're being sexually assaulted in a dream, it's worth wondering if something like this has ever happened in your waking life," says dream worker and relationship expert Kezia Vida. There is also a big difference between actually being abused in a dream and being afraid that you will be abused.
“If you are concerned that memories of your trauma may return, seek support. Often dreams reflect sexual trauma we have experienced to help us cope,” says Vida. What to eat before bed:
Why dream of making love - basic interpretation
A dream in which you make love is certainly an omen of positive changes in life. It can promise you both new acquaintances and the development of new connections, as well as the transition of existing ones to a higher level.
A dream in which you have several partners during sex promises you the opportunity, when dealing with a difficult life situation, to choose from several options for the development of events. If in a dream you experience fear of a future relationship, you should not force yourself to do anything in reality, because most likely such a dream indicates that through force, guided only by reason, you enter into a relationship with a person.
If in a dream you do not recognize your gentleman at all and decide to make love to him spontaneously, unexpected changes in life will befall you , which will ultimately turn out to be a favorable combination of circumstances for you. But it’s too early to relax, because at any moment life can change the direction of events.
If in a dream you are devoted to your loved one and make love with him, but in a new place, then such a dream means that you are destined to breathe new strength into the relationship and give it some zest, enrich it with experience and originality.
If you make love to a stranger in a dream, and you like it, you are bored with everyday life, and you have long wanted to change something in yourself and in your chosen one. Many dream books claim that to do this, it will be enough to simply take a closer look at what exactly you liked about making love with a stranger - this is exactly what you lack in an intimate relationship with your loved one.
You should be especially attentive to those dreams in which you have sex with your boss. These dreams promise you not only pleasant moments at work, but also unexpected troubles and losses. It is important to remember all the dialogues that you had in a dream; they may contain information that you so lacked to make the right decision.
If you dream that you are making love with a friend, such a dream suggests that you may have a trip, a change of place of residence, a change of priorities thanks to the person who appeared in your dream.
Why dream of making love with your ex? Such a dream says that you often return to the past in your thoughts and delve into it, look for a way out of the current situation and look for opportunities to improve your current intimate life through the experience of past relationships.
Mind-blowing sex
Well, here's the good news. If you dream about ecstatic or amazing sex, that's great, right? “These dreams can be a powerful meditation, especially if you have trouble realizing your desire in waking life,” says Vida. Also remember that whatever you feel in your sleep, you can feel in your waking life. “Think about how to achieve this ecstasy while you are awake,” Vida says.
If you are having any of these sex dreams, consider talking to a therapist or professional to find answers and begin the healing process, if possible. For really good dreams, maybe try spicing up your sex life by making those fantasies come true.
Psychologist Gustav Miller interpreted such dreams as positive / hochu.ua
Let's go deeper into details
In many ways, the interpretation of a dream depends on all sorts of details of the plot: the participants in the process, the day of the week when the dream occurred and the frequency of repetition of the night dream. Direct participant in the process
Often, dreams about making love promise happiness and prosperity. You can find out more by remembering who exactly was involved in the sexual act.
Alien sex
Problems and obstacles.
Random witness
Unexpected and unusual positive changes. It is possible that these will be promising acquaintances.
Coincidence
The personification of the dreamer’s intimate problems, for example, dissatisfaction with the actions of a new partner in bed or the inability to open up to him. Number of partners and their gender
Threesome sex speaks about the sleeping person’s attitude towards sex as a sport.
Group sex predicts attention and care for loved ones, especially your partner. If the dreamer’s beloved took part in such an act, this means disappointment in love, followed by distrust of potential partners.
Refusal of group sex is the threshold of a white streak that is productive in spiritual and material terms. After such dreams, creative people can tune in to a surge of inspiration. As a sign of unexpected news or surprise, you dream of watching other people perform such an act. If the dreamer is a pregnant woman, the birth will be accelerated.
Intimacy with men is a sign of the rapid implementation of ideas and plans. For dreamers, sexual intercourse with members of the opposite sex indicates the need for a strong life partner, protection, someone's superiority. Sex with women is interpreted as the future success of current projects in personal life.
Place for sex
The place in which you dreamed about sex also influences the interpretation:
- Car - there are moments in the dreamer’s relationship that do not suit him. It is likely that he wants to change their format to a more serious one.
- Bath. Advice to experiment in your intimate life. This will bring indescribable pleasure.
- Bed. Tired of routine.
- Bathhouse. If a sleeping person is in a relationship with someone, he should prepare for conflict situations or the development of illness. The couple is expecting a new family member. Single people will meet their future great love in the coming weeks or months.
- Public place. It is important to think about every step you take so as not to harm your reputation.
- A dark room. When being in it brings confusion and fear to the dreamer, this may indicate a loss of authority of the sleeper or his mother. Peace and tranquility indicate shelter or maternal support.
- Bright room, bright lighting. If the dreamer was disturbed by the light, his secrets will be exposed.
- Street. If such a pastime of the sleeping person was characterized by awkwardness, this also means the revelation of his secrets.
- Space. The embodiment of the process of improving the dreamer's soul and body.
- Internet. Misconceptions about the state of your affairs and the opinions of those around you.
- Telephone. Subconscious desire to share secrets.
- In front of the mirror. The personification of the desire to receive approval for one’s action, especially if the dreamer was excited and had an orgasm. If there was no orgasm, the dreamer’s self-esteem is inflated, and his claims are unfounded.
- Under the water. The sensual basis of the worldview and character of a sleeping person. The desire for a loved one or to overcome a certain boundary or obstacle in a relationship.
Common plot twists also include sex on the beach. This is a message from the subconscious about the need for romance from a partner and readiness to have a child.
Missionary position: varieties, advantages and disadvantages
Mutual consent and pleasure
Consensual sexual intercourse with an acquaintance with whom the dreamer is not in a close relationship symbolizes the woman’s interest in this person. The satisfaction of the sleeping person indicates that everything is fine with her and she is pleased with herself. Orgasm is a message from the subconscious about the need to reconsider your views.
The unusual pose is explained as a desire to add variety to your life, caused by monotony and boredom. According to another interpretation, the dreamer found himself in an unusual position. This could be rearranging furniture, moving, or getting a new position.
For women, this means difficulties with a child. Perhaps the mother feels that he did not live up to her expectations or, on the contrary, exceeded them. For men, this means an unfamiliar position. If the position was unpleasant for them or gave rise to worries about the quality of sex, this indicates fear. An uncomfortable position means embarrassment. A comfortable position and pleasure from intimacy are hopes for new achievements.
Variations of proximity
Blowjob or cunnilingus is the embodiment of dissatisfaction with intimate relationships. After such dreams, girls are advised to think carefully about their words.
Traditional sex is a harbinger of a calm period. If the lack of interesting events, travel and emotions upsets the dreamer, it is worth remembering that there are no problems in his life either. In addition, the classic pose communicates the uncertainty of the dreamer and his partner.
Anal sex warns that you need to be attentive and careful towards others. There may be a selfish traitor among close people.
Not the act itself, but only the proposal
An intimate proposal from the president of the company where the sleeping person works is popular. This is a promotion that will require hard work to obtain.
Self-satisfaction
A sign of anger at yourself due to the inaccurate implementation of your ideas.
Unpleasant situations
Discomfort and shame during sexual intercourse are symbols of tightness not only in the intimate sphere, but also in life in general. It is necessary to unload your psyche and not hide your emotions. Unpleasant proximity is interpreted as interference in the knowledge of the essence of the higher mind.
Miller's Dream Book
In this dream book, a celebrity (male or female) is usually a sign of professional success. You may be offered a promotion or salary increase. If you dreamed about a famous scientist, then you need to be wary. Night vision indicates that a very important decision has to be made. But you need to weigh the pros and cons to avoid making a mistake.
In the dream book, seeing celebrities and communicating with them is a sign that you will soon make a profit. If you received an autograph, then your business will give the first results. If you dreamed that you yourself are very famous, and you are surrounded by the same stars - in reality you will advance up the career ladder.
