Dreams with romantic overtones leave a pleasant feeling and are well remembered. Why does a woman dream of a lover or a man’s mistress? As a reflection of our reality, the topic of extramarital affairs has not escaped our dreams. As the dream book says, a lover or mistress in a dream symbolizes the desire to color your life with emotions, and perhaps a secret intention to improve relations with your other half.
A dream in which you dreamed of a lover or lover speaks about your inner world and perception of relationships.
Interpretation of the meaning of sleep depending on the details
Perhaps in no other case are the details of a dream so important. The interpretation of what lovers dream about depends primarily on who saw the dream, a man or a woman. It is very important whether you yourself had a lover or mistress in a dream or witnessed the betrayal of your soulmate. The emotions that you experienced in the dream also matter - the pleasant sensations of meeting a loved one or the disappointment that your romance was revealed.
If a man saw his mistress in a dream
- The image of a chic mistress in men's dreams can be associated with internal fears and concerns. As the dream book says, a mistress can symbolize someone who is dreaming of novelty of impressions, emotional openness, and a carefully hidden fear of public reproach.
- Why do you dream about a lover who exists in reality? This dream once again reminds you of secret desires. A dream in which your mistress was unfamiliar to you speaks of possible scandals within the family or showdowns with dubious business partners.
- Beware of dreams in which your lover is unfaithful to you, this may be a sign of the appearance of long-time ill-wishers and enemies. And if someone else hugs her, perhaps soon you will have a conflict with your friends and a complete break in relations with them.
- A common question is why a former lover dreams. Perhaps in the past you have left unsaid things and mutual claims that haunt you, or you passionately desire the resumption of this relationship.
What if you dream about a naked lover?
And even if a married lady, who currently has complete harmony in her family, sees a naked lover in a dream, and even more so indulges in lovemaking with him, then in most cases this indicates her acute dissatisfaction and desire to use her feminine potential. A naked lover in a night vision, who does not actually exist, can sometimes predict a whirlwind romance for the dreamer, and his appearance will be of great importance for the interpretation of this image.
Thus, a handsome young man with an elastic naked body almost always foreshadows favorable events in the life of a sleeping woman. Moreover, sometimes dreams of this kind are a harbinger of a second wind, which can open up for spouses after many years of living together, when routine takes precedence over feelings and it seems that not the slightest trace remains of former love.
Things will be completely different in the situation if the dreamer’s attention in a dream is presented to her real lover in the nude, because then you don’t have to expect anything good from fate, and it’s the secret admirer of the sleeping woman who will have the hardest time.
This interpretation is due to the fact that nudity symbolizes poor health, so it is not at all surprising if in the near future the general condition of the dreamer’s beloved will deteriorate significantly. But a night vision, in the plot of which a woman saw the naked back or torso of her loved one, on the contrary, is fraught with an exclusively positive interpretation. Such night images indicate that this person can become a reliable support and support for a woman in all life situations and endeavors.
But a dream in which the body of a loved one was wounded and old, on the contrary, indicates that in real life you should not rely on it, since all the strength and power of this person will be feigned. Seeing a naked man passionately examining his own mirror image is a bad sign, which indicates that this person is excessively narcissistic in reality.
Practical guidelines for interpretation
Next, we will give some recommendations for interpreting dreams about lovers. Astrologers recommend taking into account not only the details of the dream itself, but also the position of the moon.
Assessment of the feasibility of a dream September 25, 2021
, according to the website Gadalkin House.
Today is Saturday, the waning 3rd quarter from September 21 2:54, the Night Sun entered the 4th house. If you had a dream on another day, you can look at the recommendations in this table
. Now let's look at the main indicators of today that influence the interpretation, according to astrologers.
| Probability that the dream will come true: no more than 60% | |
| Index | Guidelines for interpretation |
| Day of the week: Saturday | On the night from Friday to Saturday, dreams are very often prophetic. Think carefully about the interpretation of what you saw in a dream; you have the opportunity to receive a hint from higher powers. When interpreting, do not take into account your mood upon awakening. For interpretation, only those images that you saw matter. |
| Lunar day: 19th | 19 Lunar day. This is a difficult day in terms of dream interpretation. If you have a good dream, pay attention to the details - the main meaning is in them. If the plot was gloomy, cheer yourself up with something you love, it won’t bring any real problems. |
| Moon in sign: Taurus (11°49'8″); | Taurus is a very orderly and purposeful sign that achieves its plans better than others. A restful dream speaks of your desire for comfort and desire to earn a decent living. If the dream was somehow related to money, pay attention to it and interpret it first. |
| Phase: Waning 3rd quarter | Waning moon. Regardless of the nature of the interpretation of the dream, keep in mind that during this period you will experience a decline in physical and moral activity. Now it is better to finish current active affairs and lead a measured course of life. |
Jewish dream book
What does a drunk man dream about, according to the dream interpreter of the Jewish people? The dream book says that you should pay attention to the place in which you dreamed about this person. This is where you will encounter any problems. It is worth keeping this in mind and expecting possible difficulties in the workplace or in your home.
This dream book says nothing at all about the personality of the drunk person. Perhaps it was needed in your dream only to indicate the location of possible problems. Although this personality itself has nothing to do with possible difficulties, so one should not even begin to suspect him of anything.
Interpretation according to different dream books: Miller, Vanga, Freud and others
Human relationships are multifaceted and complex. How your relationships with the people around you develop determines the degree of your satisfaction. As a rule, if your relationships with colleagues do not work out, then the thought of changing jobs often comes to you, and what if difficulties and misunderstandings appear in relationships? A huge temptation becomes support from the side, light and exciting affairs, in which at first there is everything that has already faded away in the family. Someone is looking for new emotions, someone is escaping monotony, someone just wants attention and warmth - everyone has their own history of relationships on the side. Forbidden fruit is always sweeter. If you dreamed about a lover, what is it for? Various dream books will help you find the answer.
If you dreamed of an ex-lover, this signifies your nostalgia for past times.
Miller's Dream Book - nostalgia for the past
For Miller, a meeting with a former lover and an intimate relationship with him is a sign of nostalgia for the old days, you miss this relationship and, latently, you are looking for a meeting with this person. If you kiss your ex, it means something will happen soon that will cause you great surprise, and perhaps not a pleasant one.
If you dream of a quarrel with your lover, expect positive changes in your personal life. Are you fighting with your lover? Expect difficulties in reality. Perhaps your man will begin to show possessive tendencies and provoke scandals.
A dream in which you see several lovers at once speaks of your moral and physical exhaustion. You need to think about rest and relax, enjoy life. If your lover is a person you dislike, beware that in reality your potential partner may cause you trouble and trouble.
Vanga's dream book - you need attention
Why does a lover dream in a dream? If you see yourself kissing your lover in a dream, and in a public place, be careful, because everything secret sooner or later becomes clear. If a girl who is not currently in a relationship has a similar dream, she just needs to look around carefully. Perhaps there is a man nearby who is not indifferent to her, and perhaps this mysterious stranger is hiding his emerging feelings for her from everyone.
If in a dream there is a stranger in bed next to you, in reality you are suppressing a feeling of dissatisfaction that causes you discomfort, you want to change your personal life. For a woman who is faithful to her husband, a dream about her lover confirms her need for male attention. There is nothing depraved in the interpretation of such a dream; she simply really lacks the warmth, attention and caringness of her husband.
Freud's Dream Book - it's time to diversify your life
Lover in a dream is your latent desire to diversify your life, fill it with new emotions; perhaps you are not satisfied with your current intimate relationship.
The appearance of a secret friend from the past in your dreams indicates that you still harbor a grudge against him in your soul. You may not even suspect it, but the past still runs like a thin thread through your life. And your subconscious periodically reminds you of this, making it clear that you still retain emotional attachment. In order not to drag the burden of past unnecessary grievances with you through life, remove this burden from your memory and imagine that you are throwing it away like unnecessary trash. Perhaps you should reconsider your attitude towards past experiences, get rid of remaining feelings and strengthen your relationship with your current loved one.
Modern dream book - a real wedding is possible
- For a young unmarried woman, a lover in a dream means an impending wedding. Talking to him in your dreams is a sign of happiness in family life, mutual understanding with your lover, and complete intimate harmony.
- It is not difficult to guess what the meaning of sleeping with naked lovers in bed is. Such a plot indicates the purity and sincerity of the chosen one’s feelings;
- If both a husband and a lover are present in a dream at the same time, this is a sign that the woman subconsciously compares her partners;
- If the lover with whom you are currently in a relationship dies in a dream, this means the severance of a secret connection;
- Do you dream about a secret friend bringing you into his house? You will probably have to choose between him and your husband, and, most likely, this choice is obvious;
The missus of your lover dreamed - a clear signal of the legal wife’s guesses about the presence of adultery on the side of her husband. A peaceful conversation with her in a dream promises that in reality she will not make attempts to expose your couple. But a fight with her in a dream warns that your illegal relationship will be made public.
Ancient Roman dream book - you are not confident in yourself
If you dreamed of your husband’s mistress, then you saw the personification of your own fear and uncertainty. If she was too young, you are afraid of growing old, if she is angry and hostile towards you, you are too soft-bodied and therefore defenseless in relationships, and so on.
Muslim dream book - family quarrel in reality
Seeing your husband's mistress means a family quarrel, the cause of which may be excessive jealousy. But peaceful communication with a mistress, on the contrary, means a happy marriage built on trust and mutual respect.
Dream interpretation of the 21st century - be careful with finances
Seeing your husband's mistress means suspicions of betrayal are unfounded. Seeing your husband with his mistress means you are affected by someone’s words. Seeing a woman about whom strangers say that she is her husband’s mistress means doubting your choice, you should be careful with financial matters.
Who's the lover?
Cheating on your beloved with your best friend indicates a lack of attention from the opposite sex. And if she cheated with a stranger, then you consider yourself not attractive enough.
If you dream that betrayal was committed with your brother, it means that in life you consider him a reliable comrade. And when your beloved cheats on you with your father, this is a sign that your loved ones want to meet you.
The dream of cheating on your wife with a famous handsome actor means a long, fun journey. And if a homeless person became her lover, then your mother-in-law will soon invite you to visit.
A dream in which your spouse cheated on you with a neighbor speaks of your excessive arrogance. And cheating on your beloved with the president warns of possible troubles at work.
