Disagreements with your lover
A quarrel with a loved one seen in a dream may be due to the fact that you have unspokenly established a rule for yourself to avoid controversial topics; your communication with others comes down to pleasant conversations. The subconscious mind scrolls through everything unsaid in reality while the body is resting.
If this is not the first time you dream of a quarrel with a guy, this means that you are extremely worried about the idea that something like this could actually happen. The universal dream book reassures that the likelihood of such an incident is extremely low.
If you dreamed that you were angry and shouting at your loved one, it means that in reality your relationship will improve significantly and take on a new emotional coloring: it will become warmer and more trusting.
Grishina also gives an explanation of why a similar plot occurs in dreams. Grishina's dream book claims that a quarrel with an ex-boyfriend is evidence of a caring attitude towards him. You continue to replay past grievances in your memory and accumulate aggression within yourself. Surely there is a lot left unsaid between you.
If your opponent in a dreamed conflict is your beloved girl, you probably have a fear of losing her. The so-called grinding in of characters also makes itself felt. What you dreamed about in a dream suggests that the likelihood of disagreements is present, but it is not so high as to seriously bother you.
Why dream of a quarrel with a boyfriend, father, relatives?
Conflicts with relatives in dreams mean that the dreamer is not happy with the relationship with them. In real life, it is not always possible to solve problems in relationships, which is why such dreams come to the aid of people. From a psychological point of view, they have a very important function for a person - cleansing consciousness from negativity. However, arguing with close relatives and loved ones in dreams is always important.
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- A conflict with a beloved man, boyfriend or husband means for the dreamer an improvement in his relationship with him in real life. It is also believed that such a dream may indicate a person’s subconscious readiness to spend money. The dream book warns about the need to take money more seriously, otherwise spending it will have negative consequences for the financial situation in the dreamer’s family.
- Swearing at dad (or another loved one) means the dreamer’s not fully realized need to get closer to him in real life. Most likely, his relationship with his father cannot be called ideal. Dreams in which a person sorts things out with his parents have a negative interpretation. According to the dream book, such a dream promises losses, failures and stress.
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Swearing at dad (or another loved one) means the dreamer’s not fully realized need to get closer to him in real life.
If a parent quarrels with his child in a dream, this indicates that he will soon encounter difficulties in his relationship with him. However, the dream book advises a caring parent not to panic, because such dreams always help to find the right way to solve a problem.
Conflicts between spouses
A quarrel with your husband that breaks out in a dream indicates that in your family you adhere to the principle “if only there is no war.” With a high degree of probability, the Modern Dream Book claims that you are financially or psychologically dependent on your husband, therefore you unconditionally accept his point of view. What you dreamed about provides an opportunity to express what you cannot afford in reality.
If you dream of a quarrel with a girl, this should be interpreted literally: perhaps the relationship is really about to reach a dead end. Shereminskaya's dream book calls for taking the initiative and trying to correct the situation.
A dream about a former lover and a stormy showdown with him are evidence that you are still thinking about this person. In your thoughts, you continue to sort things out and accumulate grievances. The purpose of this dream is to relieve emotional stress so that such thoughts do not torment you in reality.
When you dream of a quarrel with your wife, Veles advises not to ignore this dream, since something similar may happen in real life in the near future. Velesov’s dream book reminds us that a romantic evening or intimate conversation will help prevent conflict.
Why do you dream of a quarrel: interpretation in dream books
The dream book gives the following meanings for this image:
- A dream in which a person has a conflict with someone indicates that he is too demanding of himself and others. The dreamer sets the bar too high, for this reason he often has a bad mood and health. The dream book recommends loosening your grip slightly and shifting some of the responsibility to others.
- A stormy showdown with a girl in a dream means mutual understanding with her in reality.
- A dream in which a woman quarrels with a man foreshadows her strong love with him. If on the eve of this dream the dreamer had a quarrel with this person, then in the coming days they will make peace.
- If a girl argues with a guy in her dreams, this means that in real life he takes her very seriously.
- Swearing often dreams of good deeds. Perhaps a person will soon have a need to help one of his close friends or relatives.
- A quarrel with an enemy in dreams means reconciliation with him in reality.
- If the dreamer hears someone arguing or watches a fight between two enemies, she can expect news. Perhaps one of the distant relatives will invite the dreamer to a festive celebration.
- Arguing with a stranger means meeting your love. Also, such a dream can promise a person a passion for some interesting activity.
- Finding out a relationship with a friend in a dream means loss.
- Scolding a pet means illness.
If children quarrel in a dream, then a conflict will arise between the wife and husband in reality.
Misunderstanding with friends
A dream in which there was a quarrel with a friend reflects the presence of disagreements between you that cannot be resolved. Some are so important to you that they haunt you even during a night’s rest. The dream takes on all the negativity so that in reality contradictions irritate you as little as possible.
If in a dream there was a friend in your friend’s place, this means that you risk getting into a bad story due to your own stubbornness or imprudence. With a high degree of probability, the Modern Dream Book claims that that same friend will help you get out of trouble.
When you dream of a quarrel with friends, get ready to face serious problems. Aesop's dream book promises that those with whom you quarreled in your night dreams will be the first to come to your aid.
If you dreamed of an angry best friend, what you saw can be regarded as a reminder that people tend to change, and you and your friend are no exception. Some of the changes that have occurred will cause you misunderstanding and irritation.
Why do you dream about a colleague in the modern dream book?
If the dreamer sees himself as a participant in a quarrel with a colleague, then his ambitious plans are destined to come true. Feel free to take on the implementation of your plans, everything will go well.
Why do you dream about former colleagues? If this is a person who has already quit, it is important what mood he was in in your dream. Sad - it is worth postponing making serious decisions. Cheerful - you need to think about changing jobs.
If a married male dreamer saw a former colleague with whom he was secretly in love or with whom he sympathized, he needs to take a closer look at his wife. Perhaps she has a fan at work and is planning an affair.
If the dreamer dreams of a kiss with a colleague, then no matter his gender, he should be wary of a reprimand. The authorities will be harsh, and the mistake will be made not by the dreamer himself, but by someone else.
Quarrel with parents
A dream about a quarrel with your mother once again emphasizes how different your lifestyles are. Grishina's dream book reminds us that this is a natural process of growing up and finding your own path in life. At the same time, it is necessary to look for a solution to the conflict.
A quarrel with your father in a dream indicates that the disagreements have gone so far that you continue to sort things out even in your night dreams. It is not surprising that such a tense family situation can ultimately lead to a real scandal.
If you dreamed of a quarrel with your parents, it means that there is a hidden intrafamily conflict that has been brewing for a long time. The modern dream book clarifies that we are talking about both misunderstanding and unwillingness to understand each other.
A quarrel with your mother seen in a dream is a warning about the likelihood of family troubles in reality. It will be possible to avoid them if you control yourself. You should not give in to emotions and provoke others into aggression.
The conflict with your dad testifies to your ability to defend your interests, despite the high authority of your opponent. At the same time, the dream symbolizes your despair and the depth of disagreements in the family.
Interpretation of this dream in other dream books
- If two men are in conflict with each other, the dreamers will be very jealous of one of their friends.
- Watching two women yell at each other means becoming the target of gossip and rumors.
- To enter into conflict with a stranger yourself means to lose the support of loved ones.
- If in a dream a crowd of kids are sorting things out, a lot of fun and joy awaits the person.
- Spouses are quarreling - you should expect good news.
- After such a dream, the dreamer will become the owner of valuable gifts.
- Waking up in tears after a dream about strife means living for a long time without luck.
- For a married girl, such a dream can mean family discord.
- To be kicked out of your home after a quarrel with your family means to fail. The dreamer will feel inferior.
- To sort things out with your ill-wisher means to become friends with him in reality.
- To start an argument with an innocent passer-by means to get carried away by some interesting matter.
- Annoyance and disappointment await the dreamer who dreamed of a trial. However, if the court was on his side, he should expect good luck in business.
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Scandals with relatives
A quarrel with relatives is often dreamed of by those who in real life always try to behave politely, affably and extremely friendly, avoiding sharp corners in every possible way. The universal dream book warns that a mask of external decency does not protect against irritability, which tends to accumulate and can spill out at the most inopportune moment.
If you dream of a quarrel with your sister, then you have the intention of committing an act that, as you know in advance, she will not approve of. The subconscious mind scrolls through possible scenarios in order to, if not prevent, then at least mentally prepare you for them.
If there was a brother in your sister’s place, then in real life he is dissatisfied with you. Given the specifics of your communication style, you cannot ask about this directly. The Wanderer's Dream Book advises you to analyze recent events and your actions.
Why does Longo’s dream book colleague dream?
If you dream that you are meeting with co-workers outside of a work environment, then in reality you will have some common interests, and the relationship will reach a friendly level. However, there is a possibility that off-duty communication will not be so pleasant.
A dream about a former colleague being fired should be interpreted negatively. It means that the dreamer himself can part with his job, and it is unlikely that it will be possible to prevent dismissal.
Kissing a colleague in a dream is a warning dream. If this person is of the same sex as the dreamer, then he means an enemy or a secret ill-wisher. A colleague has the power to ruin the dreamer’s reputation and even career. However, if he just hugs you, then in real life you should expect invaluable help from this person.
Kissing a colleague of the opposite sex means the emergence of mutual interest. Perhaps the relationship will become very close.
If the dreamer quarrels with a colleague, then it is with him that he will have to work on a joint project or management assignment.
If a colleague dies, this means that his position may go to the dreamer. To see such a dream from Thursday to Friday means dismissal.
If the opponent is dead
Explaining why one dreams of a quarrel with the deceased, Aesop offers a somewhat mystical interpretation. It happens that the spirits of the dead disturb the living. In such cases, a dreamed conflict is one of the effective ways to get rid of an obsessive entity. Aesop's dream book even knows the culmination of the dream: during a quarrel, the opponent suddenly disappeared.
The modern interpreter interprets somewhat differently what this means in dreams. Since in a dream you are quarreling with someone who is not there, the dream suggests that different sides of your personality cannot agree with each other. Simply put, you have an internal conflict in your soul.
What does a quarrel mean in Miller's dream book?
Psychologist Miller believes that the image of conflict in dreams always symbolizes problems, misfortunes and deprivations. Therefore, there is clearly no need to expect anything good after such a dream.
- The dreamer is in for squabbles, gossip and bad rumors. Perhaps ill-wishers will want to denigrate him.
- A young teenage girl will find herself in the middle of trouble. Perhaps misfortune will happen to her.
- A married woman risks losing her husband's trust. The possibility of divorce cannot be ruled out.
- Conflict situations in the dreamer’s family will arise regularly for a long time.
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Psychologist Miller believes that the image of conflict in dreams always symbolizes problems, misfortunes and deprivations
If the dreamer watches someone he knows swear, this means that he will be disappointed in his work. Perhaps he will be demoted or have his salary cut.
Various interpretations
The Dream Book of Seasons believes that a dreamed quarrel is evidence of emotional overstrain. In this case, perhaps the best way to relieve stress is physical activity. It will help you relax without creating problems for others and, first of all, for yourself.
If a quarrel occurred in a dream, and the image of the opponent was blurred, this indicates a conflict with oneself. Most likely, in real life you often have to get into arguments and squabbles.
The reasons for the quarrel will help you get a more accurate interpretation of the dream. A conflict situation that arises out of nowhere may indicate real health problems. The Eastern dream book warns of the onset of a disease, the symptoms of which do not yet make themselves felt while awake. However, such a dream can also be caused by fatigue or lack of sleep.
If you dreamed of a quarrel with a man, this reflects your dissatisfaction with relationships with the opposite sex in principle. Most likely, there is a lack of positivity in communication. Sometimes you can be too straightforward, which is why it is not always easy to be with you. Try changing your line of behavior for the sake of experiment.
Why do you dream about a colleague in the universal dream book?
If a woman has a dream about a colleague, she needs to prepare for changes in her personal life. This could be a fleeting romance, or a serious relationship with a promising person in terms of marriage. A dream about a colleague has a similar meaning for a male dreamer.
If a colleague was idle in a dream, this means a chance to raise his rating in the eyes of his superiors by completing some work quickly and efficiently. A pleasant conversation with colleagues is dreamed of before a pleasant business trip.
Seeing a colleague at lunch is a warning of mild illness. If several colleagues had lunch or dinner, the dreamer will receive an invitation to an important event, such as a wedding or family celebration.
Seeing a female colleague in a dream means that the dreamer will become the subject of gossip. Such a dream also warns that you should not gossip yourself, as this can lead to serious troubles at work.
If you dream of intimacy with a colleague, then in reality there is rivalry between the dreamer and this person. In addition, the dream warns: a colleague wants to take a dominant position and overtake the dreamer in position. If your boss is choosing between you, you should make every effort to not let your colleague get ahead of you.
There is another interpretation of the dream. Why does a woman dream about a male colleague? To a quick increase and improvement in financial status. But if a man dreams of intimacy, this is a reflection of his feelings about unpleasant recent losses. You shouldn’t dwell on failures, you need to live in the present and leave the past behind.
