Why the dead do not pass in their sleep according to esotericism
Those grieving the loss of parents, children, relatives or friends often ask them to come in a dream. They want to receive news from the deceased and get rid of their own worries. Man is a social being who needs to communicate with his own kind. When someone close to you passes away, he already wants to continue communication even on a subtle mental level.
It is known that the deceased can manifest their presence after death by noises in the house, the movement of objects, and light touches. But the deceased are also capable of appearing before the mind's eye during sleep. Some departed people do not want to visit their relatives even in their dreams. There are several reasons for this, all of them depend on the relationship between the living and the dead before the moment of death.
Why the deceased does not come in a dream worries many grieving people. People are trying to express unsaid things, resolve unfinished conflicts, or see the deceased whom they were unable to visit during their lifetime. They can directly ask for this, go to church or a cemetery, some risk performing rituals to summon the spirit.
If the deceased do not come in a dream, there may be the following reasons:
In any of the reasons, the deceased act like living people. They are controlled by emotions and the remaining life experiences. Often the dead appear in dreams to warn of serious changes in fate. If such an event is not expected, they will not bother their relatives in vain.
Dreams about the deceased within 40 days after death
The death of a loved one is unspeakable. Relatives feel that much has been missed and important thoughts have not been expressed. Perhaps this is why we often dream of dead people who have recently passed away. And in the Orthodox religion, there is a strong opinion that the soul of the deceased remains near the house for 40 days. Esotericists identify several reasons:
- Unfinished business . Often deceased parents or other loved ones try to convey important information in visions. After death, a soul cannot calmly move to another world if it still has some unfinished business. The best way to get rid of frequent dreams with the deceased is to fulfill his last request.
- Close emotional connection . Having a strong friendship or blood relationship does not go away after a person dies. To prolong such mutual affection, a person unconsciously calls the soul of the deceased into dreams. It is worse if the deceased appears in visions and offers something. If 40 days have not passed since death, then it is better to answer clear refusals. It is believed that taking something from a dead person means inviting disaster.
- The desire to take it with you . Often the dead come and try to take a loved one into their world. In the world's religions, following a dead person is a bad sign. This may be a terrible coincidence, but stories of imminent death after such visions are not uncommon.
- New Guardian Angel . A favorable interpretation of strange dreams says that a deceased person becomes a guardian angel for the one to whom he comes at night. By the way, many note that grandparents appearing in dreams often warn of unfavorable events. Often everything happens through symbols, so for those who want to interpret an unkind sign, it is better to turn to dream books.
Dream interpreters focus on the personality of the recently deceased.
General information may be:
- If you dream about your grandmother or grandfather, then some pleasant and unexpected event will happen soon;
- Mom or dad appears to warn of betrayal;
- A husband is a sign of an imminent unpleasant situation;
- Wife - expect a promotion or increase in income;
- Brother or sister - someone close to you will need help.
It’s also worth paying attention to exactly how dead people appear in dreams. If they come as if alive, then this is a favorable sign. Perhaps the person will discover the potential for movement. And in the end, well-deserved success is expected.
If you dream of a zombie, then this indicates weak energy, that a person may be threatened by bad entities from another world.
As a rule, after 40 days, deceased relatives stop dreaming. But there are exceptions. Psychologists believe that such frequent occurrences are not associated with mysticism, but with a reluctance to let go of a loved one. In some advanced cases, even special therapy is required.
Religion's answer to why the dead don't come in dreams
According to the religious point of view, the soul of the deceased remains on earth for up to 40 days. For the first 9 days she is present next to loved ones or in her home. This explains why the deceased does not dream for up to 9 days. He is able to communicate with the living directly. Then the soul travels across the earth, visiting places that are important to itself or looking at new ones that it did not have time to see during its lifetime. Next, she awaits a trial and a decision on her future fate in heaven.
Christian point of view
In Orthodox Christianity, believers take seriously the appearance of the image of the deceased in dreams. The Church emphasizes that the souls of the dead do not always visit their relatives, not wanting to disturb them. Traditionally, the appearance of the image of the deceased means his need for sincere prayer from the living and the mention of his good name.
The deceased does not appear in a dream for a number of reasons:
Christianity is of the opinion that the appearance of the deceased in dreams should be more alarming to those who are grieving. The dead do not come in a dream if they have found peace and are accepted into the Kingdom of Heaven, and their relatives can cope with the loss and move on.
Vision of Islam
In the Islamic worldview, dreams are sent by Allah, but some of them are the works of Satan. The latter is capable of bringing pain and suffering, showing the deceased to his relatives. In this religion, it is generally accepted that the soul after death immediately goes to the next world and does not wander the earth.
Why does a recently deceased person often appear in a dream?
Answers:
Svetlana
I will answer with examples from my own life: when my grandmother died, we lived in another city. After her death, my grandmother began to come to my mother (her daughter) in a dream and not only... Mom told me different stories... for example, it was late, everyone was asleep and mom was alone in the room... the light was a little dim (they lived in a one-room apartment at that time)…. The woman’s face began to separate from the wall and seemed to be stepping on her... In the dream, my mother had a bad dream about my grandmother... my mother was very worried and very afraid... One grandmother-neighbor taught, when she comes again in a dream, to swear at her, tell her away and forbid her to come... It was difficult to decide on something like this, but there was no choice, and somehow my mother couldn’t stand it and swore at her in a dream, everything stopped...
I had a grandfather... in 2000 he died... I was my favorite granddaughter, and I loved him immensely... however, after his death, I had a hard time dreaming about him, I woke up in the middle of the night with tears in my eyes (I cried in my sleep...). Once in a dream I asked him not to come again... More than 8 years have passed, I dreamed about him only once, although the dream was good...
But during my lifetime I was afraid of my grandmother (on my father’s side), she was cold or something... I saw her in a dream only once, 11 years have passed, but it seems that tonight... I dreamed that I was in her house, she was walking slowly around her house, and bright light was pouring into all the windows... she came in, sat down opposite the door against the wall on a bench (the room was empty - only benches along the wall and bright sunlight) and asked about us. . . I tell you, then I ask ..” how are you doing there,” she answers, “it’s bad,” I ask, “come to me again,” “I won’t come again.”... I woke up, and my soul was so light, light and warmth... a state of some kind of happiness... hard to explain.. . During her lifetime, my grandmother, when she became ill, taught my mother what to do so that she would not come and said that she would not come so as not to frighten us…. It’s true that my mother dreams about her from time to time, but she doesn’t scare her, but on the contrary, she helps and supports...
The conclusion is, in any case, it’s better to go to church, if at night your friend’s mother has a bad dream, right in the dream, let her ask her not to come: “Don’t come to me anymore, dead is dead, alive is alive”... And yet, you can’t agree to go with her under no circumstances...
Queen
I don’t know about the pebble, but mom just can’t calm down yet, she needs to go to church.
Bashirik
Perhaps because it’s so often that we’ll never see each other again.. We need to go to church, order a magpie for repose..
Your TANYA
The dead do not need any pebbles on their graves, they need our good memory of them... and Mother... she will never forget her child... wherever she is...
Paul
Asks for prayers. Pray for him, order a memorial service and commemoration (people correctly advise - magpie for repose), and also do good deeds in memory of him.
Natalie Italy
Something in your life will change, your mother warns you about it and asks you to be more careful and also pray for the calm of her soul. She still has a secret in her soul that gnaws at her. Tell her how much you love her and forgive her, and ask for forgiveness yourself.
Chimera
This is normal. The first thing to do is, of course, just go to the cemetery. Visit. I dream about my brother almost every day, but this is a little different. and when you dream often, then go to the cemetery, sit in front of the grave, talk to the deceased. It will become easier for you too.
Marina Laf Baranova
Maybe she wants to warn about something, or she didn’t have time to say something important. Or maybe he just doesn’t want to part with his daughter, or the daughter doesn’t want to understand the reality of death...
Eva Kotikova
Invite the priest to the cemetery, be sure to let her read it - her mother doesn’t want to leave, she hasn’t calmed down.
MILENA ANGELOVA (MASTER-REIKI)
THIS IS REALLY BAD FOR HER! YOU CAN'T AGREE TO WALK WITH THE DEAD! ! THEY WILL TAKE IT WITH THEM! ! ORDER A PRAYER FOR THE REST OF HER SOUL URGENTLY! ! PLACE ON THE GRAVE—THE SWEETS THAT SHE LOVED VERY MUCH! ! Has 40 days already passed?? THIS TOLLMAN'S SOUL has not yet repented and is awaiting judgment!!
TG
Because we remember him and think about him constantly. We won't let him go. In addition, until the 9th day after death, the soul of the deceased is in those places and with those where and with whom she loved to be during life, who she liked. And then, until the 40th day, the person has not yet left completely. The closets themselves may even open, and his things may move around in the apartment. People with whom he once communicated well may call or appear. And you will feel that he is nearby. This is normal, there is no threat in this. After all, you loved each other, and death broke your unity. It's hard for everyone to get used to it. We must constantly pray for the deceased. Immediately after death, they order repose in Sorokoust churches. Until the 40th day, the Psalter is read daily in a circle, after which - also daily prayers of children for their parents or Akathist, or the Canon about the only deceased. It is necessary to periodically visit the burial site. But don’t do all sorts of crap there (drink, eat, etc.), but arrange and pray according to the special rule for the cemetery. A dead mother should never be forgotten. When the acute pain dulls and your time of adaptation and the time of adaptation of her soul in that world has passed (about 1 year), you should still try to pray more often for her repose, order memorial services in churches for a long period and memorial services for her anniversaries (birth and of death) . The main thing is to come to the realization and feeling of a parallel life with the deceased (you are here, and he is there). And there is no need to succumb to any superstition that the deceased is pulling you somewhere and calling you with him. You must think ONLY about being forgiven and well placed there, and help him in this with your prayer, good memory and good deeds in his name.
Victoria
Just sit down and remember.
Irishka
There is no need to lay down a pebble, just go to church and pray for the peace of your soul.
GLYPTICS
need to remember often...
Personal Account Removed
Nope, Apparently he’s bored ((it’s hard to part with your own mother
Life after death: the danger of dreams in which deceased relatives come
It happens that in dreams we are visited by deceased relatives. Such meetings in dreams are far from accidental and, as a rule, warn of the onset of important events. Not always, deceased relatives seen in dreams become harbingers of bad incidents.
Why do we dream about dead relatives?
The reasons for the appearance of deceased loved ones in our dreams can be different. Such a meeting should be interpreted based on real events. Therefore, you need to try to remember in detail all the events of the dream and even the emotions accompanying the meeting.
Often the appearance of loved ones in dreams is associated with the experiences a person experiences after their death. Thinking about the deceased, remembering events associated with them, we attract their images into dreams. It is important how exactly a person dreams.
· The deceased may appear the same as we remember them during life, but look noticeably healthier and younger.
· Although the deceased himself does not speak, the sleeping person understands that his relative is doing well.
· The plot of the dream in which the deceased appeared is very real, and after awakening, all the details of the dream are remembered.
It is important to remember the emotions caused by such a dream. A cheerful or calming mood felt in a dream is a signal that all troubles will soon disappear, and the bad streak will remain in the past. If the deceased often appears in dreams, he must certainly be remembered in the temple. It is also worth giving out candy and cookies to strangers and asking them to pray for the deceased.
Why do dead relatives come into our dreams?
· The deceased wants to confess his actions during his lifetime and receive forgiveness.
· The deceased is prevented from finding peace by an unresolved problem, debt or promise during life.
· The deceased tries to warn about an important event, advises something or becomes a defender.
· A deceased relative appears in a dream to prove the existence
the afterlife and shows that everything is fine with him.
How do psychics interpret the appearance of deceased relatives in dreams?
People who have a strong energy field or sensitive intuition more often see their relatives in dreams. Often, communication with the deceased reveals prophetic abilities in people, since the dead warn of future events.
Their belongings can also bring the dead into dreams. Therefore, without special energy cleansing, you should not wear the jewelry of the deceased, even if they themselves asked for it during their lifetime. Both the stones of jewelry and their metals are connected to the deceased with special invisible threads stretching to the other world. Therefore, wearing them is dangerous.
It happens that the reason the deceased comes to sleep is damage. Communication with otherworldly spirits is dangerous for humans. Some damage is aimed at intensifying such communication in order to deprive a person of peace. Take a closer look, perhaps there is an ill-wisher nearby, thus carrying out his revenge. It is also worth inspecting the home for linings, which can also attract dead people into dreams.
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What to do if you dream about deceased relatives?
Man is the image and likeness of God. The greatest creature on earth. You can even say that the Earth and everything on it was created for him - it is his cradle. In addition, man is a two-part being: on the one hand, he has a material body, on the other, an immortal soul, similar to the holy Angels. Man is the son of God, only, naturally, a son “with a small letter.”
This is our high dignity!
Therefore, we, dear brothers and sisters, are very complex, deep beings. And often we ourselves do not know and cannot guess what is mixed in us. It is not for nothing that man is sometimes called a “macrocosm,” that is, the cosmos in miniature - within the bodily framework of one created being. There is only one “but” here...
After the fall of the holy forefathers Adam and Eve, sin multiplies in the world, which can only be healed by our Lord Jesus Christ.
As a result of this, inside a person - in the heart - it is as if his second nature is formed. Often a person does not know himself. He perceives not his real “I,” but a tangle of sins and passions that has tightly woven itself into his heart and obscured the immortal human soul.
Often we do not even know our own soul, but identify our sinfully passionate fusion. This is also the sin of Western schools of psychology and pedagogy, which consider only the superficial “layer” of a person and cultivate indulgence in him. Orthodox ascetic work, on the contrary, is primarily aimed at unraveling the sinful tangle, helping a person, with God’s help, to get rid of it, cleansing and freeing the soul. It is from here that the famous saying of the holy supreme apostle Paul: “But those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and lusts” (Gal. 5:24).
You may ask, why such a long preface?
Yes, because the main method of Satan and demons is to play on human passions and sins, like a musical instrument. The devil strives to be a puppeteer, pulling a person's strings of sin so that his soul goes to hell.
The King of Darkness is powerless on his own. He has no power over a person. But he is a great illusionist and magician. It is from here that the names of the unclean are “evil” and “slanderer.” His main task is to win a person over to his side - to venerate him (the ancient holy fathers used the word “addiction”) and force him to obediently do his will. The devil’s method can be compared to hair extensions: Satan’s alien plan is woven into a person’s thought or feeling. Like a fisherman who has hooked a big fish on the hook of sin-passion, he leads a person by the nose until he completely overcomes him. Schematically, the anatomy of sin looks like this: a pretext - a person’s consideration of a pretext - accepting it in the heart - admiring it - committing a sin - repeatedly committing a sin - sin turns into an inveterate passion - destruction of the soul.
Therefore, we must be very attentive to ourselves - to our thoughts. After all, around us in the invisible world there are thousands of spirits - holy Angels and demons. And the latter are trying to invade our souls, and the former want to protect us. We must help our holy Guardian Angels - through prayer, fasting, repentance, and the Sacraments of the Church. And under no circumstances should you accept or even consider the enemy’s excuses with your inner mental-heart vision. Satan is a very ancient and intelligent creature. If we focus our attention on his tricks, he will carefully look for a way to catch us.
For example, the devil or demon can appear to a person in the form of an Angel, a saint, Christ or a deceased relative. In such cases, the unclean skillfully plays on the feelings of sinful human nature: pride, vanity, fear of superstition and ingratiates himself into his trust, gradually pushing the person to the abyss.
Therefore, ALL the holy fathers unanimously say that we CANNOT BE TRUSTED IN DREAMS.
There are three types of dreams:
1. From God. 2. From the devil. 3. From nature.
Dreams from God are dream-visions, prophecies, admonitions that spiritually develop a person, show him the right path in life, and warn him against danger. A striking example of such a dream is the vision of the holy Patriarch Jacob of a mysterious staircase, prefiguring the Most Holy Theotokos (Gen. 28:10–14). But in order to see such dreams, you need to be a saint - that is, a person who has cleansed his heart through fasting, prayer, pious living, humility, confession, and the communion of the Holy Body and Blood of Christ to the deep level of vision of God. You and I, dear brothers and sisters, are often not such great ascetics and have not achieved holiness. Therefore, seeing dreams from God is unworthy.
Dreams from the devil can be conditionally divided into three types: in which he tries to push us into some kind of passion (for example, fornication, defilement in a dream); when it seeks to scare us, terrify us (its goal is to bring a person out of a state of mental balance); in which he disguises himself as God, saints, dead relatives. The last dreams are the most dangerous, because vanity and pride are deeply rooted in a person (almost everyone) (“Like, wow, I was honored to see God or the saints”), or because of the feeling of grief from the loss of a loved one, he is in an unstable psychological state and may also be subject to attacks by demons.
Natural dreams are when a person, in various bizarre forms, experiences in his sleep the events that happened to him over the past day.
In these dreams, a person may also be attacked by demons.
You and I, dear brothers and sisters, can see the last two types of dreams due to our sinful nature.
But the holy fathers warn: under no circumstances pay attention to dreams. We got up in the morning, crossed ourselves, read the morning prayers and, forgetting everything from the night, went to work.
Regarding deceased relatives...
In order for our conscience to be clear and not reproach us, we need to do for the deceased everything that the Church prescribes: order magpies, memorial services, litias, read prayers, give alms. Go in and light a candle for them in the church. Believe me, they will receive great grace from God in the next world and your earthly prayer “letter of love.” For those who have not been baptized, have taken their own lives, or for whom, for one reason or another, one cannot pray in church, one can ask for the priest’s blessing to offer prayers for God’s mercy at home (for example, the prayer of St. Leo of Optina for suicides) or do alms: feed homeless person, etc. The only thing is, don’t force people to remember the deceased, but do it yourself at home, if you have the blessing of the priest.
For those who still have doubts after reading this article and who still dare to believe dreams, I recommend reading the Patericon, in particular the Pechersk life of St. Isaac, the recluse of Pechersk, or the essay of St. Ignatius (Brianchaninov) “On Charm.”
It must be remembered that in wakefulness a person is protected, among other things, by the power of his will. In a dream, when he relaxes and his will turns off, he can be attacked by demons. It is to protect ourselves from the unclean that we read evening prayers; during the prayer “May God rise again...” we sign our bed with the sign of the cross and conclude the evening rule with the prayer “In Thy hands, Lord Jesus Christ, my God, I commend my spirit...”, which is read for this purpose. so that before going to bed, when our psychological defenses weaken, we voluntarily surrender our souls to the care of the Lord. And then everything will be fine...
Why do you dream about the deceased?
A deceased person visiting in a dream is a special sign. In this way, the subconscious tries to draw attention to certain events - financial problems, deception, betrayal, treason.
The dead come up to 40 days in special cases, to certain people. It is important to remember what happened during the meeting, what emotions were experienced. When contacting your loved ones, a feeling of warmth, comfort, happiness, and tenderness appears. A loved one from the other world can give approval or warn against a planned step, give valuable advice or provide support.
Often you dream of a deceased person if there are unfinished earthly matters between you - misunderstandings, a quarrel before death, or disagreements. Take advantage of the situation, forgive the deceased, confess your love, express gratitude. After awakening, certainty and peace of mind will appear.
Psychologists' opinion
Most professionals believe that dreams cannot be trusted. They can only be interpreted and interpreted to suit a person’s life. After all, dreams are the work of the subconscious. Many people ask the question: “If mom died, why don’t I dream?” There is an explanation for this question. Dreams are a continuation of all human experiences from the real world. Therefore, you should not look for mystical explanations in the question “why don’t you dream about the dead.” Often, if the deceased does not come, this indicates moral peace. This also means that the stress experienced is forgotten by the body.
Modern man knows practically nothing about the afterlife. At a minimum, because it is impossible for people to confirm or deny its existence. Psychologists also believe that excessive passion for dream interpretation has a negative impact on the psyche.
If you dreamed about a relative before 40 days from death
After death, liberation from the physical body occurs within 40 days. The deceased needs time to understand and come to terms with what happened. The energy flow can carry him far from his place of lifetime, destroy or partially erase his memory. With the enormous inner strength of a person, the past life is securely fixed in the consciousness. Allows the deceased to be dreamed of by relatives.
The connection is stronger for up to 40 days if the connection is love or resentment. In the first option, the relative tries to spend more time with his loved ones before leaving, to finish what was left unsaid, to finish the things he started, to calm him down. The deceased are nearby even during the daytime until the soul departs. As a result, noise, rustling may be heard in the room, things may fall or change places. Don't be alarmed. After some time, everything will stop, the soul will find peace.
The arrival of a dead person in a dream can be provoked by endless mention of him. The Church calls not to cry for a dead person - it prevents you from calming down and leaving the world of the living. It is necessary to let go of thoughts, come to terms, accept the pain.
Atheists have their own point of view about the appearance of the dead in dreams up to 40 days
Atheists usually categorically deny the existence of a soul in humans and do not imagine it as something that can be felt or seen. If thoughts about relatives who have left this world haunt you, then you can try to analyze the situation yourself or contact a specialist. For example, to a psychologist.
If the deceased was offended during his lifetime, it is worth trying to pacify the anxiety and accept what happened as something that can no longer be changed. No one can change the past. For yourself, you can mentally ask for forgiveness from the person who was offended. When trying to fall asleep, you need to think that everything will be new, everything will work out. If you have a meditation technique, you can try to use it.
If you really want to see a dead person in a dream, you should mentally ask him about it. It is enough to remember all the good things that connected you with the deceased, you can even talk out loud to an imaginary person. Whether or not the soul exists is not particularly important. The main thing is that if you really want to meet the deceased in your dreams, you just need to really want it. And, even if there are not 40 days from the moment of his death, the deceased will still make himself known.
What does it mean if you don’t dream about a deceased relative for up to 40 days?
You should not be upset, look for reasons in your behavior and actions if the deceased person does not appear in your dreams. The soul that has left the body continues to worry about the family, as during life. If you don’t dream of a dead mother for up to 40 days, it means she doesn’t want to cause pain to the child, harm her with memories, or make her suffer. This also applies to other relatives, their souls worry about those left on earth.
Some sources speak of the resentment of the deceased against the living. If the discord occurred shortly before death and it was not possible to reconcile, let go of the negativity, say words of forgiveness out loud, and wish for peace.
Death brings fear and confusion, especially with the accidental death of parents and children. The dead do not want to hurt loved ones by appearing again. Come to terms with the loss; after accepting the situation, you can dream about the departed person for up to 40 days.
Do not reproach yourself for what was unsaid or undone during your lifetime - it will not help to bring back and resurrect the deceased.
why was the deceased person actively dreaming about until forty days... and then stopped...
Answers:
Estsanatlen
Because the soul is still on earth for up to 40 days. That's why he contacted you.
Mary Rua
The soul is gone.
Dmitry Shestaev
According to the canons of Orthodoxy, the soul of the deceased remains with the living for 40 days and God decides its fate. After 40 days the soul goes to God.
Lar_ka
Maybe he hoped that you would realize that he desperately needed your prayer for the repose of his soul... Who knows?
It is necessary to pray especially fervently for the deceased in the first 40 days after death. But now it’s also possible, of course! So, you can correct your mistake if you wish.
Ushakova Tatyana
He was at home, and after 40 they leave and come when you have a problem, and they try to help.
Artful Dodgeress
It means you did everything right. He is happy with everything.
Interpretation depending on the circumstances in which the deceased dreamed
Each person periodically reports dreams for up to 40 days, where the plot is centered on a deceased relative. For most, the situation causes fear and anticipation of negative events. Do not be alarmed; the exact interpretation of a dream depends on a number of factors - who appeared, when, what they looked like, what they did, what they said.
If you dream about your mother, it is recommended to pay attention to her words. Able to predict the appearance of a child in a family, warn about wrong behavior or decisions. If you appear regularly, analyze your actions; your mother may reproach you. Talking to a deceased person in a dream is a warning about treason or betrayal.
If you dreamed about your father before 40 days, don’t do fateful things, don’t invest money, don’t make decisions over the next week—it could result in ruin.
A healthy, full of energy husband points out an incorrect lifestyle and demands change. The appearance of a spouse portends grief, a deterioration in the way of life, and bad news.
The arrival of a deceased wife is a symbol of affection for a loved one. It is recommended to interrupt the connection and ask not to dream. If you passed by, didn’t look back, didn’t stop, it means you’re ready for a new relationship, you’ve let go of memories of past feelings and family.
The image of a brother up to 40 days indicates the need of relatives or friends for help. If you get into a fight in a dream, then expect profit.
The appearance of a sister means uncertainty in business, trouble. In the morning, analyze the prospects, find weaknesses.
Grandmother comes with valuable advice. If he hands over money, get ready for financial problems.
A dream with your grandfather portends troubles and temporary difficulties. Warning about a large amount of work and troubles.
If you dream of a deceased person as if he were alive for up to 40 days, this is a warning about health problems. The phenomenon can be interpreted differently. When a dead person is alive in a dream, expect good changes. You will move away from the loss and find a way out of a difficult situation. A second wind will open to live and achieve success.
Why do you dream of a dead person?
Answers:
Little Maska
For an Orthodox person, the answer is obvious: the soul asks for prayers. If your grandmother was baptized in Orthodoxy, order a magpie for her repose. But you need to pray yourself, read the Psalter. And it is also very important to give alms for her, even if she is not baptized. The best way to feed is to buy food. Ask those to whom you give it to remember (name) for his repose. If you have been baptized but have not received communion, you can submit simple notes in the church. If you were a church member, submit a registered note; at the proskomedia, particles will be taken out for her, and they will be washed with the Blood of Christ. It is very important to pray yourself. For example, even like this: O Lord, rest the soul of your departed servant...forgive her all sins, voluntary and involuntary, and grant her the Kingdom of Heaven. Or: Remember, O Lord, Thy fallen servant... and give her rest, where the light of Thy face shines. But you will help her most of all if you yourself try to correct your lives in accordance with the Gospel commandments; you are one family.
Andrey Semenov
While dreams are not subject to our control!
Hello
Well, you're funny... And who wants death?
Dreaming because a person dreams. .
You dream of an evil dead person when relatives have very strong feelings for him. . That is, they think about him and do not let him go. . In his dream, the dead man tries to destroy this bond of affection in order to go his own way.
Georgy Fadeev
Often, very often, pathologists make diagnoses that are beneficial to themselves..
Vasily Pamenov
You know better why. But such dreams are a warning about something. And if immediately after death, then a request to do it, but in this case, it seems like a reproach for what was not done.
Alexey F.
The question is very simple. First, you answer why you have dreams at all, and I will answer you why you dream about the dead.
Anechka-sunny
You can’t let grandma go, and keep your soul in this world. we must accept that she is no more and light candles for her repose. at home near the photo for up to 40 days let the candle burn
Alexander Mamaev
Only grandma and God know the reasons. In such cases (dead people in a dream), I additionally ask God for their forgiveness, and when my wife dreams of her dead relatives, she drives me to church, and I light candles for their repose, and, of course, I myself also ask for their forgiveness and leniency from God. You can try these options.
Finn McMissile
she needs help... but God did not teach to perform funeral services for the dead... write and I’ll tell you how we can help the dead
Lu Mai
Grandma is a dear person - that’s what I dream about. Orthodox Christians always remember their loved ones in church or in prayer at home. Many pious believers read the Psalter for the departed all 40 days. Those who cannot do it themselves order prayer services at a temple or monastery. This is how prayers help the soul to go through ordeals.
Interpretation from dream books
People authoritative in the world of esotericism interpreted dreams more reliably.
According to Miller's dream book, a mother means illness, a sister, brother or other deceased relatives means loss of money. When a dead person dreams of being alive for up to 40 days - a warning about dubious enterprises, the negative influence of a friend. If in a nightmare a dead person begins to rise from the grave, expect loneliness and betrayal of friends.
Freud did not give meaning to the image of the deceased. In his opinion, any coming in a dream is an instruction, a warning.
Vanga warns: many dead people – a massive epidemic, a global catastrophe. A sick person who has been dead for a long time is an injustice. A conversation with a friend is a prompt to action.
Nostradamus interpreted it as follows: hugging, touching the deceased in a dream for up to 40 days - get rid of real fears, go after him - get a serious illness, fall into depression, dream of being alive - did not find peace.
Hasse's dream book speaks of approaching danger and change. Carrying a coffin with the dead means problems at work, dismissal; giving him an expensive thing is a chance to get out of a difficult situation; smiling at him, kissing him on the lips - a successful romance; to see lying next to you is success; undressing - loss of a loved one; dressing up in clothes is a disease.
Tsvetkov believes that the deceased person wants to inform about upcoming trials. The father who appears indicates problems in the lives of his grandchildren.
Dreams carry the greatest semantic load for up to 40 days from Thursday to Friday. They are prophetic and come true within 1 day to three years.
If you dreamed of a dead person on the 9th day after death - a request for prayer before God for the soul, acceptance into heaven.
If a dead person dreams of being alive up to 40 days after death, this may mean that the dreamer is in some kind of danger. However, troubles will be avoided if the deceased person behaves kindly in a dream.
Dreams about dead people
Dreaming of communicating with the dead
People often dream of dead people. This is due to the fact that we miss them and want to at least communicate with our loved ones in this way. Although dream books see another message in such a vision.
Interpretations of dream books
Before you begin to understand why a dead person dreams for up to 40 days, it is worth first understanding what dream interpreters mean in such visions. Let's find out why, in general, a dead man dreams of being alive.
Loff's Dream Book
Loff looked at this vision from three sides, depending on the behavior of the deceased in your vision:
- the person was simply present in the dream without performing certain actions;
- the deceased communicated, gave advice, pointed out certain things;
- the deceased person sharply condemned the dreamer for certain actions or inactions.
Any night vision should be considered separately.
The dream symbolizes longing for the departed
In the first case, when the deceased is simply in a vision, without doing anything special, the dream is a consequence of longing for the departed person and promises a sharp change in the weather. In general, such dreams do not carry any meaning and are not worth special attention.
If we consider the second option, then the situation here is more serious, and this message from higher powers is worth listening to. When a deceased person talks to you, the dream can help you understand the current situation, give a hint on how to behave in the future, the main thing is to correctly interpret the words of the deceased person.
When a dead person smiles and behaves friendly, it means you are going the right way. When he is sick in a dream, one of the people close to you may soon become seriously ill. What will be the outcome of the disease, whether the person will recover, can be judged by the condition of the deceased.
The third option is a dream, which the dreamer must listen to, and should not be ignored. Loff reassures, saying that any condemnation of the deceased concerns himself rather than living people and the dreamer himself. If you dream about something like this, then you need to visit the burial site, visit the church, and light a candle. The vision suggests that the dead man is restless in the next world, something weighs on him.
Interpreter of Aesop
Dreaming of a dead man in a coffin
This interpreter also advises taking a closer look at the mood of the deceased. When he behaves peacefully, does not demand anything, does not swear, and looks cheerful, then the dream can only indicate that the weather will soon change.
If in a dream you see strangers discussing the deceased who lies in the coffin, then troubles are coming with the authorities. You risk being fired or demoted. Such a dream can predict multiple conflicts with neighbors, friends, and acquaintances.
Interpreter of Dmitry and Nadezhda Zima
A dead person in a dream is a symbol of new life. It is believed that the dreamer is entering a new life. All troubles will be forgotten.
The Zim spouses considered the appearance of a deceased person in a dream as a harbinger of a change in the weather, a change in the life of the sleeping person as a whole.
Hearing the call of a dead person in a dream
When you dream of dead people literally every night, you cannot get enough sleep, your dreams have a disturbing coloration, then some unpleasant event from the past haunts you. You have to let go of the past, otherwise you simply won’t be able to move forward.
When the deceased person in your dream is cheerful and behaves friendly, there is no reason to panic. It is worse when the deceased calls a sleeping person and asks him to follow him - the dream speaks of a mortal danger threatening the sleeping person and his family members. If you do not follow him, you will be able to save yourself from misfortune, otherwise you should be extremely careful.
Esoteric interpreter
When a deceased person is unfamiliar to you, then, according to the dream book, you may dream about him only when the weather changes. Close people are trying to warn you about the danger; the dream is an indication: you must behave prudently and not succumb to provocations.
At the same time, the interpreter believes that the deceased mother predicts good luck for the dreamer, and dad promises support.
When a deceased friend appears to you in a dream, then you should seriously think about what you are doing now, what is the meaning of your life.
To see how the deceased comes to life - you will witness a unique incident and you will be surprised.
If a deceased person offers food in a dream
The dead are calling you to follow them - you are in danger of illness, or you will find yourself in a rather difficult and unpleasant situation. The main thing is not to follow them.
Even more negative is a dream in which a dead person offers you food. After a night vision, you should not put off visiting a doctor; delay can cost your life. In a dream, did you accept food from him, did you eat with him? This means you are in danger of death, says the dream book.
Interpreters say that you should not take food from the deceased or follow them even in a dream.
Psychological point of view
The most basic dream interpreter who examines dreams from a psychological point of view is Sigmund Freud's dream book.
Freud often views dreams with erotic overtones. In the case of the dead, everything is completely different. It is believed that everything that the deceased tells you is very important, and all his words will be directly related to you and the people close to you. This can be either a warning or condemnation of certain actions.
It happens that a deceased person gives you advice. Don't ignore it, this is important information worth listening to. It is important that you remember everything the deceased tells you. And what to do next, your intuition will tell you.
