Don't relax!
In general, the desire to quarrel with a loved one is usually dictated by nervous tension in reality. You may be on edge and ready to snap at any minute.
If you happen to quarrel with a guy, and you feel relieved, then you don’t have to worry for a while. A quarrel in a dream means that you have received a small but vital release.
Just don't relax! The dream book is sure that if you don’t figure out the problems now, this state will soon return with a vengeance.
Interpretation from dream books
There is more than one dream book. Each of them interprets in its own way a story seen at night about a disagreement with a loved one.
Freud's Dream Book
Freud interpreted such stories based on the intimate side of the sleeper's life. The more the lovers quarreled in the dream, the more they are drawn to each other in reality. For this reason, the psychoanalyst does not regard the presented plot as a warning about something bad.
Miller's Dream Book
The dream book regards the plot as a harbinger of a deterioration in relations with a loved one. It does not have to be the sleeping person’s lover. Perhaps a showdown with his parents or closest friend or other relatives awaits him ahead.
French dream book
According to this interpreter, a quarrel in a dream is a good sign. It promises success and good luck to the dreamer in any endeavor.
Dream Interpretation of Medea
Medea warns that such a dream is a direct warning that in reality the lovers will soon quarrel. It is important to prevent the impending storm by “working on mistakes” and finding out what does not suit the other half of the couple. Constructive conversation and mutual understanding will help make the relationship even stronger.
Dream Interpretation of Veles
Swearing with a loved one seen in a dream is an indication that they are actively discussing something behind the dreamer’s back. Most likely, his envious people have cooperated and are looking for a way to harm the sleeping person. He should be more careful.
Modern dream book of N. Stepanova
If you dream about lovers sorting out their relationship, it means that in reality they will only become stronger. Harmony, love and respect reign in their couple.
Family dream book
A quarrel seen in a dream is a sign that in reality the sleeper will finally make peace with the person dear to him.
Dream book for a bitch
Quarreling with loved ones means trouble. It is worth reconsidering some aspects of your character.
The newest dream book of G. Ivanov
A quarrel seen in a dream is a sign of quick reconciliation with a loved one.
Dream Interpretation of the Yellow Emperor
Quarreling with a loved one in a dream means receiving a gift from him in real life.
Chinese dream book
Quarrel with a loved one - to great love, a happy life together.
Dream Book of the Wanderer
Quarreling with a loved one in a dream means reconciliation with him in reality. If the swearing ends in expelling the opponent from the house, it means that the sleeping person is not facing the best period of life.
Esoteric dream book
According to the Esoteric Dream Book, swearing means trouble in reality.
Tsvetkov's Dream Interpretation
What you see in a dream is an unkind sign. A dark streak will soon begin in the life of the sleeping person; perhaps he will lose someone close to him.
Decoding details
Why do you most often dream of arguing with your loved one? Sometimes it's even good to see her. In a dream, this is an omen of unexpected wealth, good luck in love, success in business. However, all this will come only after overcoming a number of minor obstacles.
The dream book advises you to more accurately recall all the details of how you had to quarrel with the guy.
- If you swore, your request or task will not be fulfilled.
- They muttered quietly - a serious conversation is coming.
- If you rush to fight, you will fall into violent passion.
- Beaten without resistance - calming jealousy.
- The guy hit back - good luck.
Miller's interpretations
To understand why you dream of a quarrel with an ex-boyfriend or a real gentleman, you should look at Miller’s collection of predictions. His dream book says that a scandal with a significant other means for a girl that she knows how to defend her own interests. Disagreements with an ex-partner in a dream indicate that troubles are possible in the family.
You must learn to control yourself and not give in to emotional overflows. Now is not the best time to provoke others into aggression.
You should remember how the guy behaved during the quarrel:
- He shouted loudly and insulted the girl - in real life, the sleeping woman does not want to understand her partner. It seems to her that she and her chosen one are on opposite sides of the barricades. The lovers have lost interest in each other, and there is a high probability that they will have to sort things out out loud.
- He wiped away the sleeping woman’s tears, reassured her and asked her for forgiveness - a tense situation in a relationship can lead to a real scandal. It’s all the fault of the guy who doesn’t value his chosen one enough. The girl must decide for herself whether she needs this connection. It may be better to leave a relationship that is draining you.
- Beating a sleeping woman and showing aggression means big problems and troubles. The enemies are planning to harm the dreamer, and she has no idea how serious their intentions are. It's better to stay away from these people. This is the only way to avoid a bad outcome.
- He tried to make peace and suggested not to quarrel anymore - the girl finds it difficult to accept her lover’s lifestyle, she considers him not mature enough, but is not yet ready to completely abandon him. She should shift her focus to her own growing up. After all, the sleeping woman herself behaves like a child in many matters.
- He asked not to leave him and threatened with suicide - the upcoming changes would cause negative emotions. The sleeper will feel irritation and indignation. Her plans will not come true, her wishes will not come true. However, this is no reason to despair. It is important to remember that everything changes. Sooner or later, the white stripe will replace the black one, and the situation will improve. It is necessary to maintain hope that the situation will stabilize.
- Breaking dishes and destroying everything around means big problems. Troubles may arise that will force you to turn to relatives for help. If the sleeping woman is able to overcome her fear and ask her family for support, she will receive it.
Make no mistake!
In general, beating and swearing at a guy in every possible way is a good sign. The dream promises a long and strong relationship. And a grandiose scandal with beatings and mutual reproaches in a dream even prophesies an imminent wedding.
But there is one nuance here. If you dreamed that you initiated a showdown, then you will get involved in a risky scam and most likely suffer losses.
Seeing how you are deliberately dragged into a scandal, according to the dream book, is no better. This is a warning that you will make a grave mistake.
Different stories
According to the Family Dream Book, a quarrel with a guy means a high probability of conflict with him in real life. If you happen to have a fight with your friend’s man, this predicts great luck.
Sometimes in a dream you may see a quarrel with a guy in the presence of other people. If the scandal occurred in a public place, the plot promises long-term discord in the family. There may be disagreements with those closest to you.
Sometimes you may dream of a quarrel with a guy that happened in front of relatives or friends; the vision suggests that the man is not sincere enough with the sleeping woman. Most likely, he has something to hide. You should bring him out into the open to understand whether the relationship is worth continuing.
Whether the lovers managed to make peace is also of great importance. If yes, this means that in real life their relationship is not in danger. Everything will be fine, and no one can interfere with their happiness. If the couple did not have time to make peace, this is not a very good sign. A lot of difficulties can arise in a relationship. Whether they can be overcome depends on the guy and the girl. If they want to be together, no one will interfere with their happiness.
Sometimes a dream about a quarrel with the closest person is a consequence of a girl’s protracted experiences associated with the fear of a breakup. You need to listen to yourself to understand whether there are such concerns.
Thus, dreams help to know the near and distant future. Often night dreams warn of possible troubles and allow you to prevent them. If a dream has caused a strong emotional reaction, it should under no circumstances be ignored. You can find out what the night plot means in one of the popular collections of predictions, for example, in Miller’s dream book.
Wait!
Did you dream that you had a row with your boyfriend? In real life, a misunderstanding will occur that will be quickly resolved.
Why do you dream if you argued with your fiancé because of a difference of opinion? Dream Interpretation thinks that he should not reveal his secret passions, at least until he is ready for it.
Seeing a quarrel with your boyfriend in a dream for no particular reason means that meeting a stranger will become an unforgettable event for you.
What do dream books say? Dreams with conflicts in various interpreters
Many dream interpreters define dreams with conflicts as inverted dreams. What you see in a dream should be perceived exactly the opposite: if in a dream a girl quarreled with a guy, in reality she will have a cloudless relationship with her lover. The more worries a quarrel with a loved one brings, the more happy moments you will experience in reality.
However, not all dream books have such a positive opinion.
- In Miller's dream book, the largest modern interpreter of dreams, dreams with conflicts, quarrels and discord have a direct explanation. Squabbles and squabbles seen in a dream may well turn into reality, especially if there are serious prerequisites for this.
- In Freud's dream book, a quarrel with a loved one actually means the strength of passion that a girl experiences for her lover. The more violent the showdown between a young couple in a dream, the more intense and emotional intimate relationships await them.
- The family dream book interprets discord between lovers or spouses as a reflection of the gray everyday life and boredom that fills their lives. The desire to revive former passion, freshness of feelings and a sense of romance is embodied in a dream in the form of not very pleasant scenes.
- But the dream book of Seasons explains nightly showdowns as an outburst of excessive emotional stress that the dreamer experiences in real life.
Why dream of a quarrel with a guy caused by an ordinary misunderstanding? If there are no reasons for resentment in night dreams, but the conflict still flares up, the dreamer should learn to be careful. In the real world, she is threatened by conflicts with work colleagues, troubles with her studies, and misunderstandings with her parents.
Why dream of a quarrel with a guy if there is a serious reason for it? It is likely that in real life the “mistress” of the dream herself ruins her relationship with her lover, without even knowing it. A girl will be able to avoid separation if she begins to be more attentive to her words and actions, learns to smooth out corners and not provoke her boyfriend.
