How psychology interprets sleep
Psychological science considers dreams to be a kind of visual projection that reflects internal experiences, suppressed emotions, hidden desires and needs. When a person falls asleep, he loses control over his consciousness. As a result, “power” temporarily passes to the subconscious, which spills out everything that was previously hidden.
Thus, we can say that a dream is a reflection of human experiences.
So it’s not surprising that a girl dreams of a guy she likes. The logic is obvious: she thinks about him all day long, she suppresses some emotions and desires (since she considers them too frank), and at night everything suppressed is reflected in her dreams.
But if psychologists suggest analyzing dreams from the point of view of free associations (what first came to your mind is the answer to the plot of the dream), then lovers of esotericism suggest heading into the future.
Is it possible to understand why a man to whom you are not indifferent is dreaming? It’s difficult to say for sure, since the work of our subconscious has not yet been fully studied.
It is quite possible that subconsciously we notice everything in the behavior of a loved one that he is trying to hide or camouflage. For example, some gestures that speak about his true attitude towards you, the looks that he throws at you.
The mind does not notice all these subtleties, but the deep psyche remembers and then - at night, when conscious control turns off - it begins to process it.
So the events that occur in a dream must be interpreted as conclusions, results, conclusions made on the basis of the analysis of important signals - missed by the conscious mind, but noticed by the subconscious. In addition, you can understand the meaning of a dream if you turn to the experience of famous scientists and clairvoyants, reflected in dream books.
What to pay attention to in a dream
Want to get the most accurate answer? Then you should remember the night dream with all the details and nuances. It’s even better to record the details of your dream on paper immediately after waking up, so that you don’t forget anything later.
What should you pay special attention to if you want to understand why the guy you are dating is dreaming about? This:
- the man's appearance;
- actions and actions towards you and other “characters”;
- words that were spoken by the beloved;
- the man's attitude towards you;
- your emotions towards him;
- presence of third parties, etc.
The more of these and similar details you remember after waking up, the better and more accurate the interpretation of the dream in dream books will be.
Why do you dream about a guy you like, according to Miller’s dream book
A lover in a dream reflects satisfaction with your surroundings. You have no complaints about your loved ones, you feel comfortable communicating with them and solving joint matters. Appreciate this state of affairs and try to keep it as long as possible.
Remember in what situation you saw the man dear to you. If you kissed in the dark, then you or your relationship will become the object of gossip, you will face condemnation. But if the kiss took place in the light, then you have nothing to worry about - it means that everything will be fine in business and in relationships.
Don't worry when a guy you like dreams of another woman: in reality there is no reason to be jealous.
If you saw directly the moment of betrayal, think about whether your chosen one is abusing your trust and disposition towards him? A dear man is guaranteed to use you for personal gain if you dream of him giving you his photograph. If he gives you an expensive gift, your marriage will be prosperous both materially and spiritually. A dream in which you and your loved one go for a walk has a similar interpretation.
Does your chosen one ignore you in a dream? You will be faced with a difficult choice: an open relationship or a wedding with all the corresponding obligations. On the contrary, he pays a lot of attention, loves deeply and simply idolizes - family life will work out, and nature will reward the children with intelligence and talents.
Having lunch together (or any other meal) symbolizes a quarrel. If you don't stop in time, the conflict may result in separation. The more pleasant and comfortable the dinner, the less serious the misunderstanding and its consequences will be.
Saying goodbye to a guy you like in a dream means breaking up in real life. If you do not feel regret about this, then you will have no end to suitors.
latest comments
- 12-May-2021 Karina What could be the meaning of a dream if a message was written by a man whom you like, but have not had a relationship with? In a dream, for two days in a row, he wrote “hello” and we talked in correspondence about some distant things not related to our relationship. According to the sensations from the dream, I enjoyed this dialogue, but I could not answer right away, there were problems with the phone.
- 19-Mar-2021 Valeria My beloved and I broke up, I dream about him, next to him is a man in an expensive car and this man writes on the glass with his finger, will we come to me or are we leaving, and my beloved began to walk away, I take his hand, and he cleans up and looks at her as if she were a stranger.
- 12-Mar-2021 Alina I had a dream that the guy I love writes in an SMS on Instagram “Are you jealous?” What could this mean?
- 11-Feb-2021 Angelika I dreamed that the guy I was dating wrote a message on VKontakte and there was one word “break up”, what does that mean?
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